Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Benjamin Jarvis with the following comment:
I am descended from James Jarvis (b 1795) and Frances(Nee Buck 1796)from Hillington, through their daughter Ann and her son William born out of wedlock in 1838 in Anmer. Ann Married Richard Dybell in 1839 and they (and William until he married) lived in Anmer until at least 1881. I think Benjamin and Sarah are probably related to James Jarvis. I am still looking into this possibility.